Friday, October 3, 2008

Therapy . . .

Ever since my DH started working at a mental health and counseling center, I tease him about needing to be evaluated! We could all probably stand to be evaluated! Even though, Rick runs the financial end of this clinic, he does occasionally get opportunities to visit with people who have benefited from the services the clinic offers. Please keep in mind, this is a full-scale clinic - offering counseling to children placed in foster care, to men and women facing addiction (which has been very real in our family), to multiple personalities (schizophrenia), to crisis care such as suicide and domestic violence.

The clinic even provides a crisis house - a fully stocked home ready to accommodate the needs of someone who has to leave a crisis situation. This clinic has counselors who offer to help people gain healing and hope.

Where are the people of God?

I guess this is my post of repentance, confessing that I would just as soon avoid someone else's chaos and crisis because there is a residual affect on my own personal being and quite frankly, I'm sick of other people not having it together! I'm sick of people I consider friends, only calling me when their life is in crisis.

THEN, I realize that I don't have it together either. Did I yell at my children anytime this week? YES. Have I plunged into food for comfort? YES. Have I prayed a righteous prayer but lived an unrighteous life? YES. Did I share the love and hope that is found through salvation in Christ with ANYONE? NOPE!

Thank God our tax dollars go to clinics like the Cowley County Mental Health and Counseling Center, because I, as a Christian, have shirked my responsibility to God's people - the weirdo at Wal-Mart, the neighbor who shoots semi-automatic weapons at night, the other neighbor who has enough junk in his front yard to start a salvage yard, the other neighbor who strongly dislikes me, the four neighbors I've not even gone to introduce myself to and I've live here two years, the sister-n-law who has battled drug addition for years, the friend who's life is unraveling before my eyes, the two different clients I have whose marriages are completely done.

James 1:27 - Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.

If we as believers have been adopted into God's family through the salvation of Jesus, then those who have not are orphans - no spiritual home.

Lord, please forgive me for my self-righteous attitude that says that my world, life and relationships are just fine, better then most, but are simply too busy to allow someone else's life to invade my sanctified and holy space. Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.

Thank you, friends! God's word says, that wherever two or more are gathered in His name, there He will be also - in today's modern technology, I believe that includes blogs!

Blessings ~

P.

12 comments:

Ranch wife said...

I am sitting here drinking my first cup of coffee, and you just reminded me that it isn't all about me. And I needed that reminder. I know that I tend to get all wrapped up in my world and forget that I really am a part of a bigger picture. God does not call us to be hermits and hid in caves. He calls us to be the light of the world, the salt of the earth. If we as Christian people cannot extend Christlike love, mercy and compassion toward both the lovely, and most especially the unlovely what good are we? Good post, we all need a kick in the pants at one time or another. :)

Have a great a glorious day!

~M~

Paula said...

Karma - I accidently deleted your comment! I like the background too! These seem to be my favorite colors right now!

Ranch Wife - glad you had your first cup of coffee with me. I must confess, I still haven't called the friend who only calls me in crisis - I guess I would like the friendship train to run both ways. Fortunately, I've renewed friendships on the blog and found new ones - all of which I truly cherish!

Valerie said...

You are so right in many ways. But if weare faithful and willing God will use us to minister to those people. No one person is able to "help" all these people except for our Lord. But God gives us opportunities to share and we need to be faithful. David and I have learned this lately. God has given us experiences in our lives that has enable us to really relate to and minster to others in a way we never did before. He knows what He is doing...we just didn't understand it before. Six years ago we probably did not even notice the needs of "those people", but now we share our lives daily with them. Be encouraged...
:)

Rebekah said...

How true...what a convicting post...

As for the award, have you tried right-clicking and saving the picture so that you can post it? If you still can't do that, let me have your email address and I'll email it to you. I want you to have it! :)

Karma said...

Cute header! You are getting all high tech on us!!

cottonpicker said...

Ouch!! I needed to hear that. I have a tendance to get caught up in my little world and shut everyone else out. Thanks for that reminder....at least you didn't steal a cat....

Karma said...

I'm sorry you didn't like the picture. I always see pictures of myself and wonder, do I really look like that? I think you look great, every day, in real life! But, see if this helps...

Recheck my blog...

Karma said...

PS...Hope you don't mind, but I may borrow your backside for pictures of me!! ;)

Cow Pies & Mud Pies said...

That was a great post...it has certainly had my thinker going full speed for the last couple of days. Hope you guys had a great weekend with the Fall Festival. Talk soon!

Cow Pies & Mud Pies said...

Oh yea....
I LOVE THE NEW HEADER! Very cool!

Countrygirl said...

Thank you - it was a wonderful post. Very true words for me! The Lord has been imprinting in my prayer times that we need to not be complaining and grumbling; then on the radio I heard the dj say it to. He said that complaining is proof that we don't believe Jesus can handle the situation. So.....now that my feet are really sore, I will limp away and go the Carman concert tonite.

SERMN8R said...

Heavy, but necessary! Thank you for showing honesty, transparency and vulnerability - all characteristics of Christ living in us! WE ALL RELATE!